Broke up with girlfriend

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Post by Apiary Tazy » Sun Feb 28, 2016 3:55 pm

I'm not going to pretend that I fully understand your troubles but at least you're happy with what your choice.

Good luck on your love life!

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Post by I REALLY HATE POKEMON! » Sun Feb 28, 2016 7:55 pm

I don't know the the specifics of your relationship with your father but don't be too hard on him, nobody is perfect and he is your father. I said things to my dad I wish I could take back, but he is dead now and it haunts me. The only excuse I can console myself with is that I was young, but you won't have that defense. Just my two cents on that bit.

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Post by Apollo the Just » Mon Feb 29, 2016 9:56 pm

Good on you for being honest with E and M about your feelings. Open communication like that is a sign of a truly healthy relationship (even if it ends it, it ends it on much better terms than lying), and it especially takes a lot of courage to admit to someone that you have unfaithful thoughts. I think all of you made healthy decisions.

Good luck in your relationships moving forward. Keep that honesty and communication and I really think things should go well for you. I think if you do get to the point where you can be honest and speak with your father as well like you've said it can help you resolve a lot of things.

Just... good on you for your honesty, and do your best to keep it. Good luck!
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Post by Deepfake » Tue Mar 01, 2016 1:06 pm

Being honest but also remembering to see someone else's side of things can help you in life, and help you respect yourself in general. Try not to condemn the mistakes of others, but encourage them towards better things if you can.
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