I need a hug

Discussion should include supportive responses.

Moderator: Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds

Post Reply
User avatar
Chewtoy
Member
Member
Posts: 27
Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 7:38 pm
Location: I live in my Minecraft world.

I need a hug

#1

Post by Chewtoy » Tue May 10, 2011 6:44 pm

My girlfriend who I have been going out with for a couple weeks now, just broke up with me. Because she likes- get this -my best friend. And my best friend doesn't like her that way, which breaks her heart, which breaks my heart. My god. I'm depressed.

User avatar
1-up Salesman
Member
Member
Posts: 4493
Joined: Sat Apr 19, 2008 8:40 pm
Location: ar can saw
Been thanked: 2 times

#2

Post by 1-up Salesman » Tue May 10, 2011 7:21 pm

That's screwed up, man. I'm going to go ahead and say that if she would leave you, then she wasn't right for you anyway and your better off without her, rather than living life with a companion of unfaithful spirit. *hug*

User avatar
United Nations
Member
Member
Posts: 13210
Joined: Thu Jun 29, 2006 3:54 pm
Location: If you see a stranger, follow him.
Has thanked: 62 times
Been thanked: 34 times

#3

Post by United Nations » Tue May 10, 2011 7:32 pm

Aww, I'm sorry, man. Sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants anyway. *hugs* I hope things get better.

User avatar
Jere
Member
Member
Posts: 5595
Joined: Wed May 28, 2008 2:25 pm
Location: South Lapland
Been thanked: 4 times
Contact:

#4

Post by Jere » Tue May 10, 2011 7:38 pm

Triangle dramas is never fun, except if they involve cupcakes then they are hilarious but that's not important right now.

But hearing that your girlfriend are out for someone else can get to you but you should not get to depressed about it, especially since (this is what i get from it atleast correct me if im wrong please) she apperantly used you to get closer to your friend, her attraction towards your friend maybe rose after she got together with you but you but it's still a douche thing to do.

And in the long run, you will meet other nice people you might fall into a romantic relationship with (that's what i have been told at least).

Hope you can resolve this peacefully and still continue to be good friends!

And don't be depressed it doesn't fit anyone to drag their feet behind them.
Beep Boop absolutely not a bot!

User avatar
Chewtoy
Member
Member
Posts: 27
Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 7:38 pm
Location: I live in my Minecraft world.

#5

Post by Chewtoy » Tue May 10, 2011 7:53 pm

I know for a fact she wasn't using me since her and my bestfriend haven't met before we started dating. But still. I understand where she is coming from. She likes someone else now. It's not her fault she feels that way. I'm not angry at her, just sad that all the happy times we've had are coming to an end. It's hard to just move on.

User avatar
Jere
Member
Member
Posts: 5595
Joined: Wed May 28, 2008 2:25 pm
Location: South Lapland
Been thanked: 4 times
Contact:

#6

Post by Jere » Tue May 10, 2011 8:18 pm

It's always hard to move on, i had some great times with people this winter and when i was going down to the coast again it felt bad due to the fun times being over.

Something that need to be said though is that when i was driving out of town i cought up with one of the guys I used to hang with, we formed a short 130 Km/h fast convoy for a couple of miles then he had to take another route, last thing I did was to give him a thumbs up, a toothy grin and a glance over my sunglasses.

What i want to say with this... well.... i had something.... was it about custard pie... no.... ah now i remember:

Make the best of it!
Beep Boop absolutely not a bot!

User avatar
Chewtoy
Member
Member
Posts: 27
Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 7:38 pm
Location: I live in my Minecraft world.

#7

Post by Chewtoy » Tue May 10, 2011 8:42 pm

I guess. The thing that sucks about life is that it never stays the same. You might as well enjoy things while they last, because before you know it they'll be over.

User avatar
1-up Salesman
Member
Member
Posts: 4493
Joined: Sat Apr 19, 2008 8:40 pm
Location: ar can saw
Been thanked: 2 times

#8

Post by 1-up Salesman » Tue May 10, 2011 9:48 pm

Don't worry- I can tell from you not actually being too angry that you're very understanding and "sensitive" and that will be appreciated by others, boosting your chances with another, I suppose. Hang in there.

Life sucks, but then it doesn't. It's a big bipolar mess of crap, video games, religion, and something about dieting. PM me if you want, I would be glad to talk to you.

User avatar
Crazyswordsman
Member
Member
Posts: 10683
Joined: Mon Jan 23, 2006 2:36 am
Location: Booyaville (yeah!)
Contact:

#9

Post by Crazyswordsman » Tue May 10, 2011 10:08 pm

Do guys hug guys to cheer them up? In society, probably not, but I hate society's rules so I'll give you a hug. ;)

And that REALLY sucks that she broke up with you because she likes your best friend better. Honestly, she's just really shallow. Think of her that way and know you're waaay better than she is. -CSM

User avatar
Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds
Administrator
Administrator
Posts: 34048
Joined: Sat Jul 15, 2000 1:00 am
Location: Forteresse de Valois
Has thanked: 59 times
Been thanked: 44 times

#10

Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Tue May 10, 2011 11:08 pm

It sounds like she's just being inexperienced and young. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone makes poor decisions. I'm sorry to hear you've come out of this hurt, but give yourself some time, and it won't be as bad. *hugs*
Nonsense, I have not yet begun to defile myself.

User avatar
Apollo the Just
Member
Member
Posts: 16253
Joined: Mon Jun 19, 2006 3:37 pm
Location: Piccolo is Gohan's Real Dad
Has thanked: 222 times
Been thanked: 350 times
Contact:

#11

Post by Apollo the Just » Wed May 11, 2011 12:53 am

^ That.

You're being really kind and understanding of the whole situation, despite the pain, and that is very admirable. Keep your chin up and keep moving forward.

:{D
I believe in second chances, and that's why I believe in you.

Zaden
Member
Member
Posts: 989
Joined: Mon Dec 28, 2009 8:23 pm
Location: in the beak of a mighty condor

#12

Post by Zaden » Wed May 11, 2011 1:45 am

Crazyswordsman wrote:... I hate society's rules. -CSM
Crazyswordsman says something I agree with! And I gotta quote it; I so ditto this. Society makes up crap that I facepalm so hard.

Well, Chewtoy, I'm not there with you in person. I hope the sentiment of an e-hug will do.

*hug*

Remember: Philanthropists will always love you!


P.S.: Oh gosh. I used "facepalm" as a transitive verb. I am succumbing to the Internet's speech patterns that I despise so much...

User avatar
Deepfake
Member
Member
Posts: 41808
Joined: Sun Aug 18, 2002 1:00 am
Location: Enough. My tilde has tired and shall take its leave of you.
Has thanked: 107 times
Been thanked: 47 times
Contact:

#13

Post by Deepfake » Wed May 11, 2011 2:03 am

You know what I like? Cake. I haven't left my wife because of that, so far. If she gets jealous, well, then we'll talk.

~le sigh
I muttered 'light as a board, stiff as a feather' for 2 days straight and now I've ascended, ;aughing at olympus and zeus is crying

User avatar
1-up Salesman
Member
Member
Posts: 4493
Joined: Sat Apr 19, 2008 8:40 pm
Location: ar can saw
Been thanked: 2 times

#14

Post by 1-up Salesman » Wed May 11, 2011 11:11 am

^Nicely done.

User avatar
Pyropunk
Member
Member
Posts: 423
Joined: Wed Jun 22, 2005 1:00 am
Location: Orlando, FL
Has thanked: 2 times
Been thanked: 3 times

#15

Post by Pyropunk » Sun May 22, 2011 9:41 pm

(((((((hugs))))))) sorry to hear the chaos... hang in there... you're awesome and your soulmate is out there :) It's just not time yet

User avatar
lamarwisneski
Member
Member
Posts: 64
Joined: Thu Nov 17, 2011 12:03 pm
Contact:

#16

Post by lamarwisneski » Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:48 am

Well you don't need to upset..Like she broke your heart,your friend broke her ...Even you should feel good that you got free with the cheater who cheats you and like your friend instead of you..You will get better than her..Be happy and live your life as much as you can..

User avatar
Galefore
Member
Member
Posts: 9354
Joined: Tue Jan 04, 2005 2:00 am
Location: ur wildest dreems lol

#17

Post by Galefore » Wed Jan 18, 2012 10:32 pm

ZOMBIE THREAD

IT'S A BOOMER

OH GOD IT GOT BILE ALL OVER ME

Post Reply