I need a hug
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I need a hug
My girlfriend who I have been going out with for a couple weeks now, just broke up with me. Because she likes- get this -my best friend. And my best friend doesn't like her that way, which breaks her heart, which breaks my heart. My god. I'm depressed.
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Triangle dramas is never fun, except if they involve cupcakes then they are hilarious but that's not important right now.
But hearing that your girlfriend are out for someone else can get to you but you should not get to depressed about it, especially since (this is what i get from it atleast correct me if im wrong please) she apperantly used you to get closer to your friend, her attraction towards your friend maybe rose after she got together with you but you but it's still a douche thing to do.
And in the long run, you will meet other nice people you might fall into a romantic relationship with (that's what i have been told at least).
Hope you can resolve this peacefully and still continue to be good friends!
And don't be depressed it doesn't fit anyone to drag their feet behind them.
But hearing that your girlfriend are out for someone else can get to you but you should not get to depressed about it, especially since (this is what i get from it atleast correct me if im wrong please) she apperantly used you to get closer to your friend, her attraction towards your friend maybe rose after she got together with you but you but it's still a douche thing to do.
And in the long run, you will meet other nice people you might fall into a romantic relationship with (that's what i have been told at least).
Hope you can resolve this peacefully and still continue to be good friends!
And don't be depressed it doesn't fit anyone to drag their feet behind them.
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I know for a fact she wasn't using me since her and my bestfriend haven't met before we started dating. But still. I understand where she is coming from. She likes someone else now. It's not her fault she feels that way. I'm not angry at her, just sad that all the happy times we've had are coming to an end. It's hard to just move on.
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It's always hard to move on, i had some great times with people this winter and when i was going down to the coast again it felt bad due to the fun times being over.
Something that need to be said though is that when i was driving out of town i cought up with one of the guys I used to hang with, we formed a short 130 Km/h fast convoy for a couple of miles then he had to take another route, last thing I did was to give him a thumbs up, a toothy grin and a glance over my sunglasses.
What i want to say with this... well.... i had something.... was it about custard pie... no.... ah now i remember:
Make the best of it!
Something that need to be said though is that when i was driving out of town i cought up with one of the guys I used to hang with, we formed a short 130 Km/h fast convoy for a couple of miles then he had to take another route, last thing I did was to give him a thumbs up, a toothy grin and a glance over my sunglasses.
What i want to say with this... well.... i had something.... was it about custard pie... no.... ah now i remember:
Make the best of it!
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Don't worry- I can tell from you not actually being too angry that you're very understanding and "sensitive" and that will be appreciated by others, boosting your chances with another, I suppose. Hang in there.
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Do guys hug guys to cheer them up? In society, probably not, but I hate society's rules so I'll give you a hug. ;)
And that REALLY sucks that she broke up with you because she likes your best friend better. Honestly, she's just really shallow. Think of her that way and know you're waaay better than she is. -CSM
And that REALLY sucks that she broke up with you because she likes your best friend better. Honestly, she's just really shallow. Think of her that way and know you're waaay better than she is. -CSM
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Crazyswordsman says something I agree with! And I gotta quote it; I so ditto this. Society makes up crap that I facepalm so hard.Crazyswordsman wrote:... I hate society's rules. -CSM
Well, Chewtoy, I'm not there with you in person. I hope the sentiment of an e-hug will do.
*hug*
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P.S.: Oh gosh. I used "facepalm" as a transitive verb. I am succumbing to the Internet's speech patterns that I despise so much...
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