Two of my friends were dating. They no longer are.

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Two of my friends were dating. They no longer are.

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Post by RinkuTheFirst » Mon Nov 01, 2010 10:12 pm

I remarked to my boyfriend about this, "I'm glad I'm just a periphery friend to both of them, so hopefully I won't get caught in the crossfire."

This launched an hour long session of my boyfriend accusing me of liking the male friend and vice-versa, calling me unfaithful, etc.

I don't know why I even talk to him at this point. :omg:

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Post by Valigarmander » Mon Nov 01, 2010 10:32 pm

I don't know anything about your relationship besides what you've posted about it on VGF, but this guy sounds incredibly possessive, and I think you can do better than him.

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Post by X-3 » Tue Nov 02, 2010 8:29 am

Why do you, then?

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Post by Nomyt » Tue Nov 02, 2010 8:58 am

I can only echo what has already been said on this topic and the other one.

You need to get rid of him. He's too possessive. And now he's trying to pin an unfaithful idea on you...well, In my opinion, people that accuse other people of being unfaithful have usually been unfaithful themselves.

Get rid of him. If he pesters(including threating you, or hurting himself) you, tell someone older (and I mean adults not someone a year or so older) and get it sorted out. You don't want him dragging you down.
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Post by Apiary Tazy » Tue Nov 02, 2010 10:02 am

Wow.

He's an idiot.

I mean, sorry for saying that about your boyfriend and all, but wow, he's rather quick to jump to the widest of conclusions. It's like that's all that is on his mind.


Maybe that's how he likes it. >_>

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Post by S1x » Tue Nov 02, 2010 3:34 pm

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Without trust it will not end well.
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Post by RinkuTheFirst » Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:43 pm

On a more positive note, my two friends got back together, so all is good in the land.

Well, maybe not in my castle, but that's a different story. :D

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Post by Bad Dragonite » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:12 pm

Well at least they're back together. :D

Anything else I could say on your situation would probably be redundant, I'm afraid... :/

I'm sorry... : (
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