Is it rright that I want to murder my uncle?...

[Bad Dragonite]

I suppose I should clarify...
My
"uncle" has decided to evict us in order to take our things he decided that one today.

He's been storming in yelling and cursing up a storm, whilst banging and taking whatever he can.

He has jumped in my mothers face and my sister's while cursing and yelling.

I jumped in his face the first time he did it to my mom, I ran in the other room when I heard a abng, and yellrd at him, telling him to stop.

He decided to make our lifes a living hell at that point.

He had started before that though, when I was on my way back home from teasting , we stoped by myy "aunts" store/gas station. my mom happened to mention that we were probably moving soon, because he blows everything out of proportion, along with a huge money thing that I'd rather not get into...

Before we even got home she had already called and told him...
That was when he decided to kick us out, along with demanding that my mom pay him 750 dollars that we didn't have,(not even mentioning the increasing amounts of money my mom had been paying every month)...
He came back the next day looking for the money. My mom didn't have the money, because she had two or three car payments overdue because of the increasing amounts of money he had been asking for, that had somehow disappeared.
He got mad and started yelling, banging, and whatever else, acting more like a child then any child I had seen, yelling about how we had a week.


He came in later looking for the money, lowering it to 650, and saying we could have till the end of the month.
Another tantrum...
He starts yelling and cursing again.
I ran in when I heard banging, and yelled at him.
He got mad and said, "what?"
I said "What do you think?"
He said "what do you think?"
"You don't think your Mama owes me any moner!?"
I said" NO, I don't, she's been payin you more and more every month."

He got mad and said" You are getting out of here today."

More curse words as he continues pulling the air conditioner's tube out of the wall (The floor model that my mom gave him money to pay for, but somehow it never did.)and went out the house yelling and cursing, and came back in telling my mom to give him the cell phone right after telling her to call my other uncle. (She did, it was his cell, he had lent her after all)
After I went back to my room, he had apparently said " If he gets in my face again, then I'm gone knock him in the head, or kill him"
I didnt hear that part, but then my mom said. "Oh, you don't say anything bad about someone elses kids" ( anotherlong story)
He said "I didn't"
She said " you just got through saying that you'd kill him"
He said, like a kid does when covering up "No, I said that I fell like killing somebody today"

Some where else in there, there were other arguments, one I remember was, " I'm your sister A (codename) "
He said" That's not my fault"

While outside, he pulled the interwebs away.

Eventually coming back in to get the modem, he asked where it was, I told him on the floor, he said where, I said next to my foot.
(I wanted to kick him in the face so bad...)

He had reduced my mom to tears, she never cries.

(It did get extended a bit)

He keeps saying that its something to do with his daughter, and how my mom "started sh*t" with her, but my mom did and said nothing about his daughter.
She asked him to move the couch and tv in his part of the house, so that he could shaperone her, because she felt it wasn't her place.

He blew it out of proportion.

He locked most of our stuff in the nearby shed, we got him to open it, and got as much of our stuff out as fast as we could, in the middle of the heat while, yelling and cursing at us more, and telling us none of our stuff will ever leav e this property, pretty much confiirming our idea of why he is filing papers on us on tuesday...

So yeahh, I've been pleading with my mom all week to let me kill him, or at least hurt him, to no avail.

I take out my anger on the walls now...

I started getting my nervous twitch back after unloading the shed, and loading it in the house.

I'm glad we have a wall up, so he at least has to use the door.

He ot in my sisters face and yelled at her, I nearly pulled out all of my knives.

At least five times within those thirty minutes, the first being when I heard the POP! come from one of our heateers hitting the ground, from where he and my mom were.

During the work, I pulled our sledgehammer out of the shed, he said it was his, I said, no, it was ours, he got madder, my mom said its where the dog chewed it at the handle, I said I have a potographic memory, I'd know it, he picked it up from the ground, and chunked it across the yard, breaking it.

I remember whn first picking the thing up, how awesome it would be to smack him one good time with it.

If you're one of my facebook friends, this should clarify some stuff, and I'd like to add, that this is happening while we're in a court battle over 400 gs in backed child support with my schitzo "father"...

During one of his tantyums, he said, "G (codename) Is going to find out where you are!"

My mom knows that my "Father" can plead insane, to whatever, and has experienced losing a loved one in a hit before, actually two...

[Maximum Spider]

Cops. Call 'em.

[ZeldaGirl]

Call the cops.

Seriously.

[Bad Dragonite]

I had suggested that.

He is on probation, so we could get him arrested.

We have family coming to help us, and soome of their friends, we plan to get the cops to watch him while we do the moving.

[glux]

I don't blame you for feeling the way you do, and I'm sorry you had to go through all this. He is just way over the edge. just because the house is owned by him doesn't automatically make it his. There are very many choice words and thoughts running through my head, but it's not my place to say them. I do hope that this all gets better for you. Just cuss him out real good. It won't do much, but it'll make you feel a little better.


EDIT: And yes, cops are nice.

[March]

uh, cops, yes.

[Bad Dragonite]

My mom says it'll just make more drama, and "add more fuel to his fire"...


Could possibly sue , sprained my toe, and had an asthma attack...

No money for lawyer though.

Plus, suing for that just seems stupid.

[glux]

Think about it this way, if the police are there, and he threatens you like he did...

[ZeldaGirl]

If you are scared of how he will react towards you if you call the cops, it's usually a good indicator that you need to call the cops. He's unstable and will possibly hurt you - you need to do whatever you can to protect yourself.

[Bad Dragonite]

You shouldn't say that, because whatever I can, is way to much.

As far as being afraid, we're not, as far as I know, well, my sis is, but my mom knows he's just talk, as far as me, he's afraid of me, last I checked....

Course, I guess that could lead to more bad then good...

[glux]

Do what you need to do.

[Bad Dragonite]

I =

*dies unexplicably*

Thanks guys, you ripped me in f**kin half. Now I'm dead.

EDIT: Yay! sense of humor is returning. :yay:

Also, sorry for contradicting advice, I've just got alot on my mind, and am repeating.

[glux]

I =

*dies unexplicably*

Thanks guys, you ripped me in f**kin half. Now I'm dead.

LoL

Also, sorry for contradicting advice, I've just got alot on my mind, and am repeating.

We completely understand 0%.

(Please tell me that did not go over your head.)

[Deepfake]

Not necessarily where you live, but your state will have similar laws:

Willful And Malicious Destruction Of Property; Personalty - Mich. Comp. Laws Section 750.377a - Michigan Attorney Resources - Michigan Laws

Destruction of another person's property is illegal.

[Apiary Tazy]

Sound Advice I give to everyone.

Punch him the Face two times.

[Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds]

Step one: Do not injure him. I know you're angry and you want to protect your family, but it won't do anyone any good for you to be in jail, which is a very real consequence (even if you think it was in self-defense).

Step two: If he arrives at your house and starts more ****, you call the police immediately. It won't "add more fuel to the fire", it will have him dealt with appropriately for harrassment, destruction of property and other similar offences. The only reason why I can imagine your mother doesn't want you to call the cops is because of the possibility of her owing money somewhere (but if you're renting directly from your uncle, there's every chance there's not a real lease signed anyways, dealing with rent and cost of property maintenence).

Step three: Read step two. If he starts anything, call the police. What he's doing is illegal, and is threatening the safety of you and your family. You can get a restraining order against him for the threats and general violence.

[glux]

Falcon Punch him the Face two times.

fix'd

[LOOT]

Why aren't the cops called yet

[t3hDarkness]

Do you have a phone?
You said he took your family's (his), right?

Dollar stores can hook you up with one for $5.
Set it up and keep it for emergency use only.

If he pulls that **** again, call the cops immediately.

[Bad Dragonite]

^Yes, we have another, and we got another one after he got his back.

My mom is trying to get an actual rent agreement with him now.

She's writing out a contract, that pretty much says he has to leave us alone, along with things like, he can't come in without permission, he can't take anything out under any circumstances, he is not allowed to try to engage socially in any way with my self or my sister, and so on, and so forth.
As long as she pays $550 a month.

She says its to help us get everything straightened out, and give us some time to find a place.

My other uncles are trying to come up with some money to help us out for this month.

My mom says she knows he'll sign it, if we bring his ex wife up, because he wants the money, and so does she. (child support..)

Anyway, maybe it'll work, but I still don't like it...