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by monstrman » Mon Oct 14, 2013 3:48 pm
Hooray for being single! >_>
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by Tyler » Mon Oct 14, 2013 4:06 pm
Huh. I figured you'd be depressed over something like this.
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by The Flattest Pancake » Mon Oct 14, 2013 4:07 pm
Hoorah.
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by monstrman » Mon Oct 14, 2013 4:08 pm
Oh no, I feel like having a party!
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by monstrman » Mon Oct 14, 2013 4:38 pm
I don't really feel like having a party, I just don't have anyone to talk to right now...
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by smol Kat » Mon Oct 14, 2013 5:18 pm
I'm sorry man! Lemme know if you wanna play something, take your mind off it.
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by RinkuTheFirst » Mon Oct 14, 2013 8:27 pm
Just think of this as a new beginning. There's a lot you can do when you're single that you can't while in a relationship.
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by b l a n k » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:15 pm
Interesting you're celebrating...what went wrong in your relationship exactly?
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by monstrman » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:17 pm
According to her, the relationship was "dead", and she "needed time to work on herself" despite "still being attracted to and in love with me". When I proposed we stopped living together and just dated instead she said "I can't handle that".
Apparently this has been building throughout the course of us living together, and she just recently realized it
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by Scarecrow » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:19 pm
I'm really sorry to hear that man. A girl saying she still loves you but is breaking up with you is hard.
You have my sympathy.
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by Marilink » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:40 pm
Really sorry to hear that, Tim. Breaking up is never easy, especially when you live together. I hope that all happens smoothly. You can hit me up on facebook if you need to.
And, by the way everyone, he's being sarcastic, not celebrating.
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by The Missing Link » Tue Oct 15, 2013 2:39 pm
The way I view it, the way she sounds as if she's trying not to hurt your feelings as best she can. Because if she were really "still being attracted to and in love with [you]," that's the opposite of the "relationship being dead." If she really wanted to make it work, there would be give and take in there. :/
Good luck coping with things, Monstr. I'm here if you need someone.
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by Random User » Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:06 pm
Hey man, that sucks. If you don't have anyone to talk to I'm always willing to listen as well. Break-ups can be hard. :c
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by monstrman » Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:21 pm
I'm not doing to well to be honest... i loved her more than ive ever loved anyone or anything and she acted like she felt the same... i... dont know what to do or think anymore... and nothing i do makes me stop thinking about it
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by monstrman » Tue Oct 15, 2013 4:20 pm
The worst part is I'm still living with her... and I keep trying to get her back...
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by CaptHayfever » Tue Oct 15, 2013 4:57 pm
Yeah, still living together is going to make this way worse than it needs to be. :(
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by monstrman » Tue Oct 15, 2013 5:00 pm
we both can't leave because of the lease.
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by United Nations » Tue Oct 15, 2013 7:50 pm
I'm so sorry, man. That sounds like a really crummy situation! I hope it all works out. :(
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by I REALLY HATE POKEMON! » Tue Oct 15, 2013 9:41 pm
monstrman wrote:The worst part is I'm still living with her... and I keep trying to get her back...
I'm not someone who is qualified to give advice, but find a way to not live with her, no matter what. Also, stop trying to get her back; easier said than done but completely move on.
