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Post by Nomyt » Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:28 pm

but some people shouldn't be allowed a computer!!

Okay. There's one guy on FB. And I added him, because as a few of my friends are on there. I've not really met them. We've spoken through various Doctor Who groups. Added this Scottish guy some time last year. Seems an alright chap. Then on the day that me and my girlfriend announce that we're together. Literally within five minutes he's posted a message to the world to see.

"If you break her heart, I'll be breaking you!" or words to this effect.

I ignore this, I'm a black belt anyway. But I've no intention of ever leaving this girl.

Two days later he tries to add me as a brother because "since you're going out with my sis (not his real sis, it's some sort of FB family thing), you should be my brother." Um.....helllllllllllll no. Threaten me, and then try to be my buddy.

Anyway, on my way to my Girlfriends house, I text to update facebook saying "on the train to see my girlfriend <3", and he comments "I hope it doesn't crash lol"......
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who in their right *insert your own rude words here* mind would you *insert rude words again, sorry* put that as a comment. I should have deleted him at that point, but by the time I got back to fb. I couldn't have cared less.

Then recently I went up the O2 dome in london. I updated FB saying I was high up on top of the O2 dome......and the wonderful comment of "don't fall off....lol" appears ........
.......I'm not happy...I decided to delete him when I get home. But by the time I get home. I'm calm, and forgiving again.

He also claimed that me and my girlfriend have a "FB" only relationship, and that because we don't live close enough, it's not a "real" relationship, and he's done with "FB" relationships.....twitter ones are better.

Then today, he takes the micky out of my mustache! This is the final straw!!....but I don't want to delete him out right. Although it may seem my reasons, are not valid enough. But wait.....I have more!!!

I'm talking to five other people who seem to have had enough of him. He comments "yawn" on stuff which he doesn't like. Constantly saying things he doesn't like is "rubbish" or "boring". No matter how many times people just say to him. "Stop this" or, "why bother commenting that?" he just gets more swear-y, and angry that people don't respect his likes.

And now for the cherry on the internet hate cake.....my friend spoke to me yesterday, and conversation went like this. "He's at it again."
Me: What's he done?
Friend: Trying to hit on my female friend. She 18, and he's 50....he thought she would find that attractive in him.
Me:......W.....T.......F......my mind is full of wat!!

Now, he may just be a lonely scottish, sad, old man with no friends. He may have Autism, or something. But does that really give him a valid reason to do and say all this.

Like I've said, I don't want to delete him, because I don't want any backlash against it, but at the same time, I'm so tempted to ban-hammer him from my friends list.
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Post by I REALLY HATE POKEMON! » Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:57 pm

Sounds like a troll.

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Post by Random User » Sun Nov 25, 2012 1:15 am

But ignoring him and deleting him would solve so many problems. Dunno what the backlash would be.

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Post by CaptHayfever » Sun Nov 25, 2012 4:23 am

Well, the backlash of Ignoring/Blocking him is that whenever you see a conversation he's part of, your friends will all appear to be schizophrenic, since you won't see his part of the conversation. But totally drop the guy.

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Post by Deepfake » Sun Nov 25, 2012 5:07 am

Just unfriend him. If anyone asks why, say he was rude and only an acquaintance. Enough said.
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Post by Nomyt » Sun Nov 25, 2012 6:11 pm

I have a feeling that if I delete him, my girlfriend will get grief off him. She doesn't really need that in her life right now, I know she can delete him too. But (unsurprisingly) he doesn't do any nasty comments towards her)
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Post by Random User » Sun Nov 25, 2012 9:47 pm

Does she know he's acts like a douche towards you?

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Post by Deepfake » Mon Nov 26, 2012 12:50 am

^^ Talk to her about it, tell her it's stressing you out, and that he might make a big deal, I'm sure she'll understand.
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Post by Nomyt » Mon Nov 26, 2012 2:39 pm

Yeah, she knows, she's also worried about deleting him. In case of backlash.... :/ Also to be honest, what's the worst he can do to us.
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Post by CaptHayfever » Mon Nov 26, 2012 3:18 pm

Literally nothing. He can do nothing to you if you cut him off.

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Post by monstrman » Tue Nov 27, 2012 6:06 pm

Yeah just delete him youll be fine.

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Post by smol Kat » Tue Nov 27, 2012 6:41 pm

Both of you block him, that's just creepy.

Also lol "you don't live close enough." Don't tell my boyfriend that :P
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