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Apparently I'm attractive now and can't have friends?
Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:22 pm
by RinkuTheFirst
My boyfriend is convinced that every other guy I talk to wants to get into my pants and threatens them.
A friend of mine is legitimately terrified to talk to me because he thinks he'll get beat up.
This makes me sad... I liked it better when everyone thought I was ugly and I could have guy friends.
Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:23 pm
by Valigarmander
It sounds like he's a bit out of line here. Have you talked to him about this yet?
Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:29 pm
by Apollo the Just
Ditto what val said. If you or your friends feel uncomfortable talking to each other because of your boyfriend, talk to him and tell him that's not okay.
Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:57 pm
by Bad Dragonite
I wonder if that's why you haven't returned my PMs, hm...
Go make friends with a tough but cool guy in your area and let him.. convince bf.
I'm a part of the national cool but tough guy's society, we can take care of it. B)
Seriously though...
I'd say talking to him about it. :/
I really can't say much else from what I've told you. Sorry... :(
Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 1:31 am
by Speed
Knock him in the jaw.
Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 2:02 am
by heh
tell him to step off, serioustalk
Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 1:30 pm
by spooky scary bearatons
Sonic 5 wrote:My boyfriend is convinced that every other guy I talk to wants to get into my pants and threatens them.
A friend of mine is legitimately terrified to talk to me because he thinks he'll get beat up.
This makes me sad... I liked it better when everyone thought I was ugly and I could have guy friends.
slap him one, who's he to control your life?
Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 5:02 pm
by Fairlight Excalibur
A word of warning: Controlling behavior such as this is one of the first warning signs to watch for on the road to an abusive relationship, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally. If he has this paranoia of others, it is only a matter of time before that paranoia turns on you. If a good talk does not solve this problem immediately, I would strongly advise you to consider rethinking your relationship choices, as well as watching for other signs of potentially abusive boyfriends:
Insults or Excessive Teasing (He calls you names frequently, even though he says he is 'just kidding')
Mood Swings
Curiosity (He always wants to know who you are on the phone with, where you willl be at all times, etc.)
Past Relationships (Has he ever had a GF before? Why did they break up?)
Be careful.