My dad always comes over on nights that I have stuff to do.

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My dad always comes over on nights that I have stuff to do.

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Post by RinkuTheFirst » Mon Sep 06, 2010 8:48 pm

If I have some extremely important test to study for? He'll be here.

Massive amounts of homework that needs to be finished? You bet your ass he'll be here.

This wouldn't be a bad thing if he didn't demand to use the computer, which is in my room, every time he comes here, and practically order me to get him food/drinks. Plus, his presence is just distracting and I wish he would GTFO.

I can't even go anywhere else in my house because I need my laptop to do a lot of the hw and there's no wifi in my house.

No, I can't tell him to GTFO out of my house. He would pitch a fit. Call the cops you say? Yes, I'm sure they could get here before my 220lbs former Marine of a father with hair-trigger anger issues could do any major damage.

Anyway. That's a rant. It makes me feel better just to ***** about it.

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Post by DarkZero » Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:08 pm

Is there anyone else there in the house with you at that time, like your mom? If so, get her to say something.
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Post by RinkuTheFirst » Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:23 pm

ZeroJanitor wrote:Is there anyone else there in the house with you at that time, like your mom? If so, get her to say something.
Yeah, my mom's here and my grandmother's here usually, BUT:

My mom has RA, is about 5'1" and 107lbs. My grandmother is about the same height, obviously heavier, and obviously a little old lady.

No, there's not a whole lot they can do.

Did I mention he shows up completely uninvited and unannounced?

(Like I said, just ranting about it makes me feel better.)

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Post by Deepfake » Tue Sep 07, 2010 12:13 am

That's what restraining orders are for, you know. Probably not much help, but then he might understand how unreasonably he's behaving. I imagine that sounds unlikely to you, though.
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