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Help

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2003 10:53 pm
by imported_Parrakarry
There's this girl that absolutely adores me. I mean, she honestly loves me. However, I don't share those feelings. I like her, just... not that way. How am I supposed to tell her without breaking her heart?

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2003 2:48 am
by imported_c_jks
Uh...lets see.

You can't. I've sat for quite a long time consulting the reasonable+romantic+logical part of my brain, and it doesn't work. There is nothing you can say or do. Or there is, but I haven't thought of it.

I think the best way to go about it is to just leave it alone. Maybe some really good looking guy will come along, or she'll just give up. That's the best thing I could think of.

[ December 26, 2003, 12:50 AM: Message edited by: Ulaenyth ]

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2003 1:57 pm
by imported_Parrakarry
Thanks for your help guys... I'm still not sure what I'm going to do, but thanks anyway. Especially to Kunx. And PT's suggestions were very helpful. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2003 3:09 pm
by Vinny
Act like a complete ass to her. Make her despise you with all her heart and soul. Then she'll stop liking you, and she won't be heartbroken :D !!

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Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2003 3:42 pm
by Ace Mercury
Well, you could just skirt the issue all of the time. Eventually one of you will move away, either literally or figuratively.

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2003 9:38 pm
by Heroine of the Dragon
Be honest.

Just tell her "thank you for trusting me that you could share that with me. I really like you and want to be your friend but in all honesty, that's all I can offer back." In your own words, of course.

It hurts to say it, it hurts to hear it but if you are sincere and you really try to be friends afterwards, you will be.

Good luck, PK! :D

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2003 11:28 pm
by Dee Emm
Print what HotD said onto an index card and keep it in your pocket.

Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2003 1:18 am
by imported_Parrakarry
All right. Thank... you... for...

ehehe.

Yeah, I guess you're right, Silvy... I just don't want to hurt her...