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Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Thu Nov 04, 2010 2:30 am

Just keep in mind, man, that her insecurity isn't a reflection on you or anything you've done. I'm sorry you feel so disheartened by it, and I really do hope things work out well for you, but sometimes there's just nothing you can do to "meet in the middle" when you want something and the other person isn't prepared to give that to you.
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Post by Nomyt » Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:19 pm

I've finally had a reply....sadly no talk of the cinema.
I miss you sooooo much. Facebook isn't the same without our epically random conversations and being continually poked. Can we go back to normal?

I still feel the same way about you that i did, nothing's changed that. XOX
I'm confused on what normal is, is it before we decided to try and be more than friends or after.....
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Post by Nomyt » Fri Nov 19, 2010 5:22 pm

Well. I guess the answer was No. Last message on her profile read. "Posted two hours ago. An hour til I see it yays!!!!"

No message to me. Guess that's me single again.....
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Post by Apollo the Just » Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:43 pm

Yeah, it sounds like she's really just avoiding the topic altogether, which means I'm sorry to say she's probably not up for it. I'm sorry, man.

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Post by StarryPeach » Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:50 pm

Sorry to hear that it ended up not happening. *sigh* I've a feeling it might be hard to just go back to the way things were with her before, so if you feel that you need to distance yourself from her, I think you should.

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Post by Valigarmander » Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:16 pm

I'm sorry to hear, but to be honest, it doesn't look like it could work to me. She doesn't seem interested at all.

I think you should stay friends with her, but look for love elsewhere.

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Post by Nomyt » Sat Nov 20, 2010 7:07 pm

CuccoLady wrote:Yeah, it sounds like she's really just avoiding the topic altogether, which means I'm sorry to say she's probably not up for it. I'm sorry, man.

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We love you though? :{D
*hugs back. Thanks, at least somepeople do...
Purifea wrote:Sorry to hear that it ended up not happening. *sigh* I've a feeling it might be hard to just go back to the way things were with her before, so if you feel that you need to distance yourself from her, I think you should.
Yeah, it's been awkward to speak to her since it all blew up to be honest.
Valigarmander wrote:I'm sorry to hear, but to be honest, it doesn't look like it could work to me. She doesn't seem interested at all.

I think you should stay friends with her, but look for love elsewhere.
Yeah, I will do. Gonna get christmas out the way first before looking elsewhere. I work pity much 13/14 days straight before christmas day...not fun times.
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Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Sat Nov 20, 2010 9:41 pm

I'm really sorry to hear that, Nomy. I don't understand why she couldn't just be open about not being ready to meet you, which might seem mean, but at least you know exactly where you stand then. On that note, just make sure you tell her outright that you can't continue the relationship, so she doesn't misunderstand how things are, okay? *hugs tight* I guess it's probably little comfort, but I know you're a really great guy, and you'll find someone wonderful to share your life with. And working might suck, but from my perspective, it was always better to be really busy working than moping around at home.
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Post by Nomyt » Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:14 pm

Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds wrote:I'm really sorry to hear that, Nomy. I don't understand why she couldn't just be open about not being ready to meet you, which might seem mean, but at least you know exactly where you stand then. On that note, just make sure you tell her outright that you can't continue the relationship, so she doesn't misunderstand how things are, okay? *hugs tight* I guess it's probably little comfort, but I know you're a really great guy, and you'll find someone wonderful to share your life with. And working might suck, but from my perspective, it was always better to be really busy working than moping around at home.
Trying to think of something to say to her at the moment. *hugs back* I don't feel to great at the moment. Yeah,working good cos it takes my mind off things, but don't really like working the 13/14 days straight. Do like a little me time, got some new games that I really need to try.
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