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Just keep in mind, man, that her insecurity isn't a reflection on you or anything you've done. I'm sorry you feel so disheartened by it, and I really do hope things work out well for you, but sometimes there's just nothing you can do to "meet in the middle" when you want something and the other person isn't prepared to give that to you.
Nonsense, I have not yet begun to defile myself.
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I've finally had a reply....sadly no talk of the cinema.
I'm confused on what normal is, is it before we decided to try and be more than friends or after.....I miss you sooooo much. Facebook isn't the same without our epically random conversations and being continually poked. Can we go back to normal?
I still feel the same way about you that i did, nothing's changed that. XOX
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*hugs back. Thanks, at least somepeople do...CuccoLady wrote:Yeah, it sounds like she's really just avoiding the topic altogether, which means I'm sorry to say she's probably not up for it. I'm sorry, man.
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We love you though? :{D
Yeah, it's been awkward to speak to her since it all blew up to be honest.Purifea wrote:Sorry to hear that it ended up not happening. *sigh* I've a feeling it might be hard to just go back to the way things were with her before, so if you feel that you need to distance yourself from her, I think you should.
Yeah, I will do. Gonna get christmas out the way first before looking elsewhere. I work pity much 13/14 days straight before christmas day...not fun times.Valigarmander wrote:I'm sorry to hear, but to be honest, it doesn't look like it could work to me. She doesn't seem interested at all.
I think you should stay friends with her, but look for love elsewhere.
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I'm really sorry to hear that, Nomy. I don't understand why she couldn't just be open about not being ready to meet you, which might seem mean, but at least you know exactly where you stand then. On that note, just make sure you tell her outright that you can't continue the relationship, so she doesn't misunderstand how things are, okay? *hugs tight* I guess it's probably little comfort, but I know you're a really great guy, and you'll find someone wonderful to share your life with. And working might suck, but from my perspective, it was always better to be really busy working than moping around at home.
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Trying to think of something to say to her at the moment. *hugs back* I don't feel to great at the moment. Yeah,working good cos it takes my mind off things, but don't really like working the 13/14 days straight. Do like a little me time, got some new games that I really need to try.Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds wrote:I'm really sorry to hear that, Nomy. I don't understand why she couldn't just be open about not being ready to meet you, which might seem mean, but at least you know exactly where you stand then. On that note, just make sure you tell her outright that you can't continue the relationship, so she doesn't misunderstand how things are, okay? *hugs tight* I guess it's probably little comfort, but I know you're a really great guy, and you'll find someone wonderful to share your life with. And working might suck, but from my perspective, it was always better to be really busy working than moping around at home.
Peace and Love X