Is it rright that I want to murder my uncle?...

#21

I veeerrrry strongly recommend having some kind of legal person in-the-know look over the contract before anyone signs it. Things like "can't take our stuff" is already a law: if he's just locking it up in the shed or whatever, it is theft, and you can have him charged without any kind of crazy contractual agreement involved. Not only that, but the wording needs to be very particular, or you might find yourselves locked into a contract that has negative effects on you, in the eyes of the law.

You really need a lawyer to check it first.

...And blackmail (bringing up his ex could be considered), is illegal, too. You're basically not allowed to do anything that can be seen to "force" someone to sign something; a person has to be willfully entering into the contract. So make sure your mother is cautious.

Bad Dragonite · #22

We weren't forcing, I just meant that she would probably be able to convince him to sign.

As far as gett a lawyer to see it, I'd imagine my mom has enough sense to do it.

With wording, that was just my basic rundown of what it said, not what it actually said verbatim.

Jere · #23

Damn **** is hitting the fan over there, hang out there buddy.

I don't have much to say that is not already said but take care of yourself and the rest of the house to.

You also seem to have a funny family relation, your family reunions must be a blast (literally).

1-up Salesman · #24

If he comes over and starts more crap, call the cops. Stand up for your family and for yourself. I'm not saying kill him. But don't let him get to the point that he goes too far.

Bad Dragonite · #25

UPDATE: We have been able to stay for this past month so far. getting him half the rent at one point then half at the other.
He has jacked up the price to $850 a month now.
We get $1000 a month from social security and child support.
Its far from worth it, the whole house smells like sewage from the pipes being messed up, the electricity is easily messed up, the walls are falling apart, as well as already being filled with small holes, from not being properly sealed. etc. etc.

I just back from visiting my cousins and seeing our (hopefully) new trailer.
Its pretty good for a trailer. Nice kitchen, 2 bed, 2 bath. Water bill is paid from the rent.
Plus there's a lake outside the front door, its quite pretty.
And the people there keep to themselves there, so I don't have to worry about someone spying on me or anything.
It also comes with a king sized bed, entertainment center, and two couches.

Its very well hidden from my father, its very quiet and peaceful.

But there's no interwebz...

I could get Dial-up. there, but anything faster is unavailable.

My only hope for web surfing is that we could get satellite internet.
Also, we need to come up with $350 to turn the lights on, as well as hope that the land lord would accept half the rent on the first, and the other half at the middle of the month.
Hopefully this means we'll get out of this hell-hole soon.

Jere · #26

Nice to hear that things is starting to solve.

Bad Dragonite · #27

Been a year...

Still hurts. I try to let it go, but an anger or pain resurfaces on occasion, but I've let it go pretty much.

That said, I found out something else about my uncle that disturbs me...
Apparently he sexually assaulted my cousin (not his daughter another (big family)) when she was a minor. (She's in her 30s now.)
He moved to my hometown, a local gas-station/store put up a no soliciting sign because of him. He had been chatting with young girls apparently..
I checked a friends Facebook and saw he had wished her happy birthday. She is 21. I saw another girl I know that is my age, a cheerleader on his friendslist as well... And my young cousins stay with him because he's "cool"... And he lives next to my (and Galefore's) old school... Part of my family doesn't believe what we say, part of them (like the ones with my cousin) do and already don't like and/or hate him (turns out that's why my cousin's brother was so eager to help us out when this went down). Some of them simply don't want to hear it though. :/

I found out that when another cousin of mine got a bf, uncle (calling him A when I mention him) A sent her bf texts saying things like they weren't actually related (they are) and they would get together, and something along the lines of even if they were it wouldn't matter. Then he said something like he would do his own daughter "if she wasn't so fat"...

Turns out though, that her bf is related to the other side of my family (the ones that hate him (note that he ISN'T related to my cousin he was with))
So yeah...

I'm not actually supposed to talk about it... Anyway...

Since he moved there, my aunt (mother of cousin whose BF was texted) has gone back into drinking and drugs... She and her husband were doing good. (To put the stupidity into perspective, they have two sons, both under 12)

They called my (sexually assaulted) cousin looking for wed suppliers. The hing is they already had weed beforehand, so they would have known suppliers. Just before they called her, she had seen my uncle in a store. She told them that a couple years ago her lung collapsed and she doesn't do that stuff anymore. She said she knows know suppliers.

As a side vent, my (sexually assaulted) cousin's brother is suicidal lately, which sucks... He doesn't do anything wrong, but he blames himself alot. He doesn't look for trouble, but it finds him. Just a while after we left my hometown, a cop pulled him over. Just a routine thing. When my cousin (known as a big dude, slightly smaller than me) got out the cop got a bit nervous, but didnt react much. He checked my cousin's record and then by the end of it, pulled a gun on my cousin and tazed him, both with no cause... From what I know, lots of stuff like that happens to him and has for years...