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Post by imported_Parrakarry » Thu Dec 25, 2003 10:53 pm

There's this girl that absolutely adores me. I mean, she honestly loves me. However, I don't share those feelings. I like her, just... not that way. How am I supposed to tell her without breaking her heart?
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Post by imported_c_jks » Fri Dec 26, 2003 2:48 am

Uh...lets see.

You can't. I've sat for quite a long time consulting the reasonable+romantic+logical part of my brain, and it doesn't work. There is nothing you can say or do. Or there is, but I haven't thought of it.

I think the best way to go about it is to just leave it alone. Maybe some really good looking guy will come along, or she'll just give up. That's the best thing I could think of.

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Post by imported_Parrakarry » Fri Dec 26, 2003 1:57 pm

Thanks for your help guys... I'm still not sure what I'm going to do, but thanks anyway. Especially to Kunx. And PT's suggestions were very helpful. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
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Post by Vinny » Fri Dec 26, 2003 3:09 pm

Act like a complete ass to her. Make her despise you with all her heart and soul. Then she'll stop liking you, and she won't be heartbroken :D !!

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Post by Ace Mercury » Fri Dec 26, 2003 3:42 pm

Well, you could just skirt the issue all of the time. Eventually one of you will move away, either literally or figuratively.

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Post by Heroine of the Dragon » Fri Dec 26, 2003 9:38 pm

Be honest.

Just tell her "thank you for trusting me that you could share that with me. I really like you and want to be your friend but in all honesty, that's all I can offer back." In your own words, of course.

It hurts to say it, it hurts to hear it but if you are sincere and you really try to be friends afterwards, you will be.

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Post by Dee Emm » Fri Dec 26, 2003 11:28 pm

Print what HotD said onto an index card and keep it in your pocket.

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Post by imported_Parrakarry » Sun Dec 28, 2003 1:18 am

All right. Thank... you... for...

ehehe.

Yeah, I guess you're right, Silvy... I just don't want to hurt her...
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