Hi CKR!
You can't really know what's right for you based on other people's testimonials, ya dig? You gotta go with what feels right for you. A wise dude once said, "How will we know unless we observe for ourselves?"
Also, speaking as someone who has had multiple failed relationships both on and off the internet, I can tell you it's very important not to give up- with regards to any arena you may choose.
Best of luck!
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