Sometimes, all you need is a hug...

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Sometimes, all you need is a hug...

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Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Thu Mar 20, 2014 12:39 am

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Post by Booyakasha » Thu Mar 20, 2014 4:49 am

Key-rist.

You know...I can relate to being a little uncomfortable around gay people. I was a little insecure in my sexuality and masculinity growing up. I still am a little, come to that (like who doesn't have issues). But, like...have none of these people hugged a relative of the same sex before? Or a friend of the same sex? I don't understand the reticence here.
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Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Thu Mar 20, 2014 9:34 am

Because they will like it, the hugging, with the touching of bits! Don't you know, EVERY physical interaction leads to sex, if you're interested in the gender you're coming into contact with. KNOWING they're all about the same-bits means they are thinking about YOUR bits (obv.) and then sort-of THEIR clothed bits will be rubbing on yours or sumthin' sumthin', and before you know it, you're having gay sex. :(

I'm sorry, I know this is all difficult to take in. Being gay just makes you so very, very different. Differences.



















*shrug* Fact is, this is a real scenario for many in minorities. Giving something as crucial and innocent as a hug can freak people out. It's heartbreaking.
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Post by smol Kat » Thu Mar 20, 2014 7:11 pm

so true. Because I've had sex with every straight male I've hugged

oh wait

But anyway, this video was really sweet. Diggin' the light-hearted comeback re:
"I think your whole sex thing is kinda gross."
"Well, I think your whole sex thing is kinda gross."
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Post by Heroine of the Dragon » Thu Mar 20, 2014 8:01 pm

It was heartwarming to see the hugs... :D
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Post by I REALLY HATE POKEMON! » Fri Mar 21, 2014 7:06 pm

Some people like their space, especially if they're particularly uncomfortable with whatever. It's a personal thing, nobody should judge you on it.

Personally, I don't like any physical contact, but if I had to receive a hug, I'd prefer it be from a male, actually.

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